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It's
A Cultural Thing…We do Understand
Adjustment to a New Culture and Country
People are products of their own cultures, their own environments, As
you grew up in your country, you learned values attitudes, customs, one
or more languages, and other aspects of the culture that surrounded you.
The characteristics of that culture shaped you as a person and made you
into a Jamaican, Colombian, Korean, Indian, Japanese, Peruvian, Bahamian
or whatever you nationality is. If you come from a country that has many
ethnic groups within it, you may identify more with that group's culture
than with any national characteristics.
One way for a person to broaden their experience in life and seek a different
perspective is to leave one culture and go to another. Sometimes people
go from one country to another, as you have done in coming to the United
States. Often times countries are so diverse within their own borders
and are made up of so many different groups of people that you can really
change your environment without ever leaving your own country.
It is challenging, stimulating, and sometimes a difficult process to leave
you own country and go live in a different country and culture. You not
only leave your family and friends; you also leave familiar food, surroundings,
climate customs, attitudes, and language. In the new country you must
adjust to many new and different things all at the same time. The potential
to learn and to grow with this experience is great, but it often takes
much effort, patience, and perseverance on your part.
Culture
Shock
Culture shock is not quite as shocking or as sudden as most people expect.
It is part of the process of learning a new culture that is called "cultural
adaptation". You may experience some discomfort before they are able to
function well in a new setting. This discomfort is the "culture shock"
stage of the adaptation process. The main thing to remember is that this
is a very normal process that nearly everyone goes through. Just as you
brought with you to the United States clothes and other personal items,
you also carry invisible "cultural baggage" When you travel. That baggage
is not as obvious as the items in your suitcases, but it will play a major
role in your adaptation abroad. Cultural baggage contains the values that
are important to you and the behavior that are customary in your culture.
The more you know about your personal values and how they are derived
from your culture, the better prepared you will be to see and understand
the cultural differences you will encounter in the U.S.
Successful Adjustment Strategies
Knowledge and Attitudes that will help you in a New Culture
It will help you If you are aware of the normal cycle of cultural adjustment
that everyone goes through understand yourself and not feel you are abnormal.
Don't expect that you should be able to function smoothly and get things
accomplished easily in a new culture. The higher you self-expectation,
the greater the possibility of frustration and disappointment when adjustment
struggles do occur.
Knowledge of American culture, customs and history can help you to understand
and get along better in your new environment. Read whatever you can, always
be observant and ask questions whenever you can.
Know and accept that you will make mistakes.
Be ready: Americans perceive you as a "representative" of your country.
v Americans may be insensitive and ignorant about you country and adjustment
struggles that you face.
Be ready to reevaluate and challenge your own assumptions, stereotypes
and preconceptions.
Have a sense of humor about yourself and adapting to this new culture.
Remember: Your goal is to adapt to life in the U.S. In a way that is appropriate
and effective for you- not to adopt the American way or become Americanized!
Everyday-Life Skills to Apply in A New Culture
Observation - watch very carefully how people behave in specific situations.
Basic transactions - through practice and observation refine and adapt
your behavior to be appropriate in daily activities (using the bus, keeping
appointments, classroom behaviors)
Idioms and common Expressions - pay attention to common expressions and
seek their real meaning and implications (don't take things literally)
Ask, ask, ask! - This may be the most important skill of all. When your
contact with you new culture makes you have strong reactions, feel confused
or you simple don't understand something, ask Americans and others who
understand the culture to help you understand. In America asking questions
is a well-respected behavior, so you should practice. Also, don't hesitate
to ask people to repeat what they have said if you didn't hear or understand.
Saying
No- it is culturally acceptable (as well as common practice) to say "no".
In the U.S. In situations where it is not common or acceptable is some
cultures. If you don't understand someone or don't want to do something,
It is proper to say so: "No, I'M SORRY, I DON'T UNDERSTAND OR NO. I DON'T
REALLY WANT TO DO THAT". Observe the host culture saying No in different
situations. It is considered less rude to say "no" than to give the impression
that you understand or agree when you really don't.
Initiate
Conversation - You have to practice your communication and interaction
skills to improve them, so you often will have to make the first step.
Take
risks, experiment - Attempt to overcome you fear of trying new behaviors
and experiences; go places and participate in activities so that you can
observe and try out culturally appropriate behaviors
Coping Strategies that will help you In a New Culture
Relax;
try to enjoy yourself see your new culture as a major life and growth
experience (including the struggles)
Keep
some kind of contact with you home and culture (letters, nationals, practice
your religion)
Work
hard on your English (listening and speaking)
Suspend
judgement: There are three ways to deal with the observations you make
about Americans and American culture. Think in terms of "D". "I". "E".
Descriptions…describe the "facts" that you see or experience
Interpretations…what you think or interpret about what you experience.
Evaluations…how you feel and what value you attach to your experience.
You
will naturally be inclined to judge (interpret or evaluate) what you see.
However, it can be more helpful and effective to suspend judgement by
focusing on descriptions and to separate your descriptions from your interpretations
and evaluations.
Developing
friends and acquaintances is important. You need to build a "social support
system" (include persons with past or current cross-cultural experience
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American Culture
Myth and Reality |
Myth: American Students are less well prepared academically than
students from abroad, and I will not have to work very hard in class.
Reality: Some American students are less well prepared academically
than others. While it may be tempting to think you will not have much
competition in the classroom, be aware that there are many, academically
prepared and highly competitive American students. In general, American
students have a lot of experience in test - taking and at expressing their
opinions in class. You may come from an academic system that does no emphasize
those skills.
Myth: American professors are casual, sometimes even asking students
to address them by their first names.
Reality: It is true that your American professors may ask you to
address them by their first names, but this does not mean they don not
expect your respect. The ways in which courtesy and respect are shown
to an American professor may different from how they are expressed in
your country. Respect in a classroom includes a willingness to participate
in class debate and to ask questions when you do not understand something
that has been said.
Myth: Americans are racist.
Reality: The stereotype does exist, and has some element of truth.
In general you need not fear that you will encounter overt racism in South
Florida, particularly on the campus. Racial and ethnic prejudice is unfortunately
a reality in the U.S. and occasionally international students experiences
hostility, and violence of this nature. It would be wise to be aware of
the tensions that may exist in the communities you may visit in the U.S.,
do not fear that this is a common and frequent problem. This is a complex
issue that reflects many of the paradoxes of American History .
Will
I Lose My Own Culture?
Sometimes students worry about "losing their culture" if they become
too well adapted to the host culture. Do not worry: It is virtually impossible
to lose the culture in which we were raised. In fact, learning about the
new culture often increases your appreciation for and understanding of
your own culture. Do not resist the opportunity to become bicultural,
that is, able to function competently in two cultural environments.
Just as culture shock derives from the accumulation of cultural clashes,
so an accumulation of small successes can lead to more effective interactions
within the new culture. As you increase your ability to manage and understand
the new social system, practices that recently seemed so strange will
become less puzzling. Eventually you will adapt sufficiently to do your
best in your studies and social life and to relax and fully enjoy the
experience. And you will recover your sense of humor!
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Campus and Social Life
Academic success is your primary goal in the U.S., but getting involved
in activities and organizations on and off campus is important too. All
contributes to a balance life.
The college offers a wide variety of clubs and organizations representing
student interest. You will find intramural sports, music, and drama. If
you want to enhance your leadership skills get involved in Student Government,
lead a student organization or organize a campus cultural event. All these
opportunities give you a chance to meet others and develop lasting friendships.

Consumption of Alcohol
It is illegal to purchase alcoholic drinks including beer and wine, until
you reach 21. The college policy restricts the consumption of alcoholic
beverages on campus. Remember that you don't have to drink to act like
an American.

Dating
Relationships between American men and women of college age range from
simple, casual friendships to strong emotional and physical commitments.
As your friendships develop beyond acquaintance, you may not always know
what your partners expect of you. Although sometimes embarrassing, it
is best to express your feelings and intentions so you can avoid confusion
and embarrassment.
If your date is interested in a sexual relationship and you are not,
it is important that you say NO clearly. Unwanted sexual attention is
a very serious matter in the U.S. Do not mistake the acceptance of a date
as anything more than an agreement to meet at a certain time and place
and to spend some time together.
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Managing Your Money
Managing your finances is one of the most important and challenging aspects
of a successful and enjoyable academic experience. You signed a contract
with the school and Immigration and Naturalization documenting that you
would be financially responsible for you studies in the U.S. It is imperative
that you prepare a budget for yourself based on the estimated expenses
on your I-20 form. Use the budget-planning sheet in this book to help
you think about the possible expenses you will have.
International Students cannot apply for Federal or State financial aid,
and on campus employment is very limited therefore it is important that
you budget wisely. Begin budgeting now if you have not done so already.
Bills often take a month or two to arrive, but arrive they will! Don't
fool yourself into spending the money you'll need to pay them.
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Here's to your Health
While you are a student at BCC, your health is as important to us as
your academic achievement. The U.S. does not have a national health care
plan, and the government is not a major provider of medical care, therefore
it is your responsibility to arrange and pay for medical care. It is a
mandatory requirement for all international students to have health insurance
while attending school. Without proper medical insurance coverage you
risk your future financial security and jeopardize your education.
Insurance for Students
Insurance for Students is the designated insurance plan for the college.
If you do not purchase the college plan and decide to use your own, or
go with another plan you must have your insurance agent complete a college
compliance form to verify that it meet all of the required coverage. Information
on Student Health Insurance is available in the Office of International
Student Services or the Student Life Office located in Building 19.
Where to Go for Medical Care
If you feel sick, do not hesitate to get help. Unless you have a real
emergency, such as a broken arm or uncontrolled bleeding do not go to
the hospital emergency room for treatment. Emergency rooms are very expensive
and, if you condition is not life threatening, you will have to wait a
long time for care. For the best medical care, it is important to choose
one clinic and use it throughout your stay. The Insurance for Students
Health Plan has a directory with a list of doctor's and hospitals that
are covered in your plan. If you were not mailed a directory, contact
Insurance for Students or the Office of International Student Services.
International Students of hesitate to seek professional help about mental
problems. You may never have had the need to talk to a psychologist and
may think only "crazy "people with serve mental problems are treated by
such professionals. It is uncommon for American students or other individuals
with emotional problems to seek professional help. As a student far away
from home and lacking family support you may find it helpful to consult
a mental health professional when dealing with adjustment, depression
or stress. The college also has counselors who can provide assistant if
you need help. Counselors are located in the department of Student Success
in Building 7 Room 250. The process will be completely confidential.
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Playing It Safe
"Better Safe than Sorry", goes the American saying, No matter how safe
you think the campus and your community is you should be familiar with
your surroundings by reading your campus safety brochure and locate the
police station that serves your neighborhood. The Campus safety office
is located in Building 7.
Crimes and Scams
Sadly, Crime is a fact in the U.S. the college is not immune from these
problems. The most common crimes on U.S. College campuses are theft or
property left unattended, or an unlocked car or room. Protect yourself
by exercising god sense and caution:
Do
not leave your books, backpack, or purse unattended anywhere.
Buy
a good lock for your bicycle and use it!
Learn
what parts of town you should avoid at night.
Remember
that 911 is an emergency number that can be called at any time from any
telephone in the U.S.
Ask
a reliable friend or faculty or staff personnel if you are in doubt a
person or an activity.
Sexual harassment is a particularly American concept and a very hot topic
on campuses and in the workplace. Sexual harassment consists of unwelcome
sexual advances, request for sexual favors, or other physical or verbal
behavior of a sexual nature. If you feel you are being sexually harassed
it is important that you tell someone. If you are being harassed on campus
contact the Campus Safety office or the Dean of Student Services.
If you are accused of committing a crime and have been arrested, remember
that you do have certain rights. You should notify the Office of International
Student Services as soon as possible. You should also notify your government
about your arrest or detainment. Some countries (for example, China, Nigeria,
and Singapore) require that the consul be notified when their nationals
are confined or detained. Depending on the severity of the crime of which
you are accused, you should obtain legal assistance.
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IMMIGRATION REGULATIONS
F-1 Student Requirements
Regulations of the U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service (INS),
a branch of the Department of Justice governs students classified in F-1
status. As you work toward your degree you are required to comply with
INS regulations, this section of the guidebook gives a brief introduction
to the following issues, as they apply to F-1 status. It is your responsibility
to know and abide by the regulations. So do yourself a favor get good
advice.
It is important that you be aware that your eligibility for opportunities
such as employment and school transfers depends on maintaining lawful
status. When you were asked to read and sign your I-20, your signature
on the document signifies your agreement to abide by the conditions of
F-1 status while in the U.S.
To maintain your status you must:
· Remain enrolled full-time (12 credits per term)
· Have a valid, current I-20
· Maintain a passport that is valid for at least six months
· Have appropriate authorization for any work and not be employed for
more than 20 hours per week while classes are in session
Students who are maintaining status are permitted to an annual vacation
during the year if they intend to enroll the following term.
Academic Changes
International students, like domestic students, sometime find themselves
in unusual situations or develop new interest that require a change in
major, degree program. If you make such changes please consult with the
office of international student services or the International Admissions
Coordinator Downtown. Do not rely on an Academic Advisor or Counselor
to inform the international student office.
Extending Your Stay
If your permission to stay is going to expire and you need to remain
at BCC beyond the expiration date to continue your program, You are responsible
for extending your stay. No one will remind you when it is time to apply
for an extension. You may apply 30 days before your stay expires. Contact
the International Admissions Coordinator Downtown for more information.
Changing Status
If you applied for a change of status with INS it takes approximately
3-6 months for your petition to be processed. While you are waiting for
the change of status to be completed it is suggested that you do not travel
outside of the U.S. After the change of status has been successfully completed
you must apply for an F-1 visa at the U.S. embassy or consulate outside
the U.S. when intending to travel outside the U.S. After you leave the
U.S. there is no guarantee that the U.S. consular official will give you
the F-1 visa. (Canadian citizens are exempt for this requirement) If you
decide to change your F-1 status and no longer wish to be a full-time
student, you cannot remain in the U.S. on a student visa unless you are
a student. Before you quit school, learn everything you can about changing
to another immigration status. If you violate your current status, you
will not be allowed to change to any other status.
Travel and Reentry
Whenever you leave the U.S. be sure to have all the documents you need
to reenter.
· Have your I-20 signed by the Office of International Student Services
or the International Student Admissions Coordinator.
· Verify that all the information on your I-20 is correct.
· Check you U.S. entry visa (which is stamped in your passport) to be
sure it is valid for additional entries. If it is not, you will have to
get a new visa from the U.S. embassy or consulate while you are abroad.
(Special circumstances apply if you are traveling to Canada, Mexico or
the Caribbean and will not be gone for more than 31 days.)
· If you are applying for a new entry visa, the visa officer at the U.S.
consulate will ask to see updated financial documentation and possibly
a copy of your transcript to verify enrollment
· It is recommended that you consult the office of international student
service if you have any questions.
Employment
INS limits employment opportunities for international students only to
students who have maintained their immigration status and academic standing.
You are not permitted to work without authorization. Also international
students may not be "self-employed," that is, they may not provide professional
services for a fee.
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